星期三, 11月 30, 2005

March of the Penguins



Before I watched the movie, everybody has been telling me that "March of the Penguins" is "cute","adorable" and "touching". After I watched the movie, I feel that besides cute, adorable and touching, this film is actually very very sad. I was kind of depressed during and after, and I don't think I'll be watching it again any time soon.

So these emperor penguins have to travel a long journey multiple times a year to mate and produce offsprings. They have to endure months of starvation and winter storms in order for their babies to survive. In the whole process, many babies die, and many of the adult penguins don't survive themselves. All the deaths and losses were too much for me, even though it's the reality. These penguins really have a harsh life! It was depressing for me because I feel that their whole life is revolved around this, and is all this really worth it? I guess seeing that seal eating up penguins didn't help either... (Although, it makes me appreciate the life I have a lot more. :P)

The movie made the whole "finding the other half" mating ritual to be a romantic journey, but how romantic can it really be if they find a new mate every year? And the slow-motioned close-up penguin sex was kind of gross....

Anyways, I'm not saying this is a bad movie, nor it was a waste of time for me to watch it. But, I didn't really enjoy it as much as other people did. While it is certainly a beautiful film, and the baby penguins are adorable, I guess I just don't quite have the appetite for the cold, dark and dangerous life in Antarctica.

星期二, 11月 29, 2005

關我甚麼事。。。

他剛跟妳說他要結婚了。妳說妳很震驚﹐覺得他在玩火。

我不明白﹐妳跑來告訴我他發了神經病﹐要跟一個剛認識的人結婚來幹嘛? 還想我勸他? 請恕我做不到。我沒有用槍指著他逼他去結婚﹐是他自己要賭。妳的寶貝兒子已做了三十年人﹐連妳也管不了他﹐何況是我?

妳還不停地囉囉唆唆告訴我戒指、教堂的事。難道妳不知道我也會難堪﹐也會難受的嗎? 我裝作不介意﹐忍著脾氣來聽妳投訴他的不是﹐但並不表示我真的肯聽妳的說話去做呀。

我本來有他一個不停的騷擾已經很煩﹐現在還要來應酬妳﹐真的受不了!

星期一, 11月 28, 2005

我也來up風

看到hana的posts﹐我也來發幾句up風吧。

最近身邊有幾個朋友都出現感情問題。

對不起﹐我現在真的是泥菩薩過江﹐自身難保。請不要問我妳們要怎辦﹐因我會絕對偏激的告訴妳們﹐men are all fuckin assholes。

而你呀﹐我也幫不到你。不要再想她究竟愛不愛你﹐你先要搞清楚你愛不愛她。如你不愛她﹐也不想跟她結婚﹐那你煩來幹嘛?! 至於那似是而非的第三者﹐真的不提也罷。你年紀也不小了﹐還想玩多久呢?

我以前最看不起那種她不要也不准人家要的女人。很可悲﹐我發覺現在我也變成那種女人了。頂。

Prego Ristorante

再接再勵﹐來多一個食物post。^^

這間Prego Ristorante意大利餐廳位於高樓大廈林立的商業區。平時午餐時間都擠滿了穿西裝的上班一族﹐但逢週末的晚餐時候卻往往水靜河飛。

好喜歡他們的餐前麵包和breaksticks﹐沾著橄欖油和醋吃真的令人胃口大開。我們點了Conchiglie Al Pollo和Spaghetti di Mare﹐前者的蕃茄忌廉醬汁酸酸滑滑的﹐還有很濃的芝士味﹐好好味呢~ 後者也不錯﹐只可惜這晚的青口不大新鮮﹐令到意粉大打折扣。:(

不過見甜品Tiramisu還算新鮮﹐custard有著濃濃的咖啡味和淡淡的酒味﹐這餐都算OK啦!

星期日, 11月 27, 2005

半畝園

和昨晚差不多的東西﹐今天再在『半畝園』吃﹐便宜一半有多!

他們的豆漿油條做得真不錯﹐蔥油餅和鍋貼都煎得卜卜脆﹐紅燒牛肉/牛筋粗麵也非常入味~ 再加上這樣的價錢﹐今餐吃得順氣多了﹐嘻嘻。

星期六, 11月 26, 2005

三家村

在家附近新開了間『三家村』﹐聽說他們的食物很不錯﹐於是便帶了譚細佬去試試。餐廳小小的﹐但真的人頭湧湧﹐我們六點正去到已全店滿座。

昨天吃完肥膩的牛扒後想吃清淡點的﹐便點了個鍋巴湯、三色蝦、小籠包、牛肉捲餅和炒A菜。他們的菜的確不錯﹐沒有味精也很夠味。小籠包雖然沒『鼎泰豐』的精緻﹐但也皮薄多汁。本還想點個芝麻湯圓作甜品﹐但他們只有四人份的﹐只好作罷。

最不滿意的是﹐兩個人的晚餐埋單要五十多美元(即差不多港幣四百元)。普通的菜式也要這麼貴﹐真不太值哦!

星期五, 11月 25, 2005

Houston's

好久沒吃牛扒了。一直都覺得Houston's的牛扒比橙縣其它steakhouse都好吃。他們的prime ribs燒得剛剛好﹐肉質又軟熟又多汁。夏威夷肉眼扒也不錯﹐肉的外層燒得有點脆脆的﹐好香口。除了牛扒﹐他們的Seared Ahi Tuna也很好味道的哦! 今餐點了一杯香醇的Pinot Noir﹐雖然不是吃牛扒的最佳選擇﹐但剛病完的我實在喝不下太濃的紅酒﹐所以還是要淡一點的酒比較好。

最討厭的是Houston's並不接受訂位﹐所以晚餐時分餐廳外總是密密的站滿等位的人群。如不想等太久的話﹐只有早點去吃飯了。

p.s. 我不是又偷食呀﹐我的咳已好得七七八八。。。請大家不要罵我呀~ 如再不出街吃餐好的來散散心﹐我真的不止身體病倒﹐連心也快要病倒了。

星期四, 11月 24, 2005

感恩

今天是感恩節﹐讓我也來感恩一下吧。

我的家人 - 他們三個是我生命中最重要的人﹐有他們在我身邊就是最幸福的事了。
我的朋友們 - 沒有你們﹐我一個人實在撐不下這些年的難關。感激你們的支持和關心呀!
我的工作 - 能擁有一份自己喜愛的工作﹐真是幸運呢。
我們的健康 - 沒有健康便甚麼也不用談﹐所以不為此感恩也不行。
我喜歡的 - 有喜歡的人和事﹐我的世界才會有色彩。
我討厭的 - 沒有討厭的人和事﹐我又怎知道要珍惜我喜歡的東西呢。
你 - 感謝你放開了我﹐才令我有機會去找尋屬於自己的幸福。

還有很多很多。。。

想著想著﹐原來我有這麼多值得去感恩的事。其實還不太差呢。:)

enough drama already

訂婚的消息傳來﹐我卻沒有一點驚訝。

從一開始到訂婚前兩天﹐他都已不斷表明他的意向。婚﹐他一定要結﹐只是女主角會是我還是別人而已。受到這種近乎威脅的態度﹐我更是反感。

結婚不是三歲玩泥沙﹐套句《BJ單身日記》裡Bridget Jones的對白﹐
“。。。I'm still looking for something a bit more extraordinary than that。”

是電影毒中得太深? 是我的要求太高? 我只希望﹐他決定走的路是對的。我不肯用自己的幸福作賭注﹐但我也希望他會幸福的。

星期二, 11月 22, 2005

近況

- 仍在與傷風菌搏鬥中。
- 已成功將細菌在公司傳播了開去。最少有兩個坐我附近的同事中招。
- 吃了多餐白粥後﹐成功減了五磅。Yeah!
- 星期日晚忍不住食了個big mac做晚餐。食完後咳到甩肺。
- 臥病在床時終於將“Half-blood Prince”讀完。第六部結局時實在太多loose ends﹐第七部怎收科呢?? 不過﹐好高興終於有人愛上我最喜歡的人狼Remus Lupin了﹐呵呵~
- 今天又忍不住吃了個Krispy Kreme donut。。。。。唔關我事﹐係同事送到我面前﹐叫我點忍?!
- 咳咳咳咳咳咳咳咳咳咳咳﹐救命呀!

星期日, 11月 20, 2005

Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire



Warning, in order to get a good seat at the IMAX theater for "Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire", you'll have to start waiting in line 2 hours before show time. Luckily I had some good friends who waited in line for me, so I only had to stand out in the cold for 45 minutes, and still got excellent seat hehe.

This fourth installment of the movie series is entirely about the Triwizard Tournament. Three finalists were chosen by the Goblet of Fire, and then the Goblet spit out an unprecedented fourth name: Harry Potter's. This is against the rules, since you have to be 16 to compete in Triwizardry, and Harry is only 14. The question is, who entered Harry's name, since Harry said he didn't?

"The Goblet of Fire" is my favorite Potter book so far in the series. (Well, I'm still reading "The Half Blood Prince" so that might change soon) If you think the 3rd book was dark, this one only gets darker. So I'm going to be biased about this movie and say I liked it a lot! It's always a pleasure to look at the characters and plots that you love so much to transform onto the big screen. Harry, Ron and Hermione have grown up. Cedric Diggory and Victor Krum looked exactly like what I imagined they would be. Cho Chang only had a few lines in this movie, but I'm sure we all know how much people already love her. I was a bit disappointed at the actress they cast for Fleur Delacour. She's supposed to be this stunning beauty that can take your breath away, but in the movie she was actually kind of bland.

The special effects, settings and costumes were excellent as usual. The dragons, the mermaids and the maze were really cool looking. I liked the look of "The Prisoner of Azkaban" better, but this is still better than the "The Sorcerer's Stone" and "The Chamber of Secrets". Nothing against Chris Columbus, I just don't think he's the right director for these kind of movies.

Onto the problems with this film. Since this book was so much longer than the previous ones, there were way too many subplots that were left out of this movie. I know it's difficult to fit everything into a 2 hour movie, but it's still disappointing. Whatever happened to the whole house elves action stirred up by Hermione? What happened to the butterfly turning Rita Skeeter? Most importantly, where the heck is the last pivotal scene in the book where Dumbledore starts to gather his group which will later become the Order of Phoenix?! I feel that for people who have not read the books, this movie will be really confusing. It didn't really explain a lot of the backstories and characters. Thus I'm not surprised when my friends who did not read the book all told me they didn't think this movie was all that great. This film did a great job of transforming scenes from the book onto the big screen, but storytelling wise, it was scattered and confusing.

So, if you want to truly enjoy this movie, I'll definitely recommend reading the book first before you go. Trust me, it'll be well worth your time.

彩霞

生活雜碎

Blues
Been slipping deeper and deeper into a depression these last couple of weeks, and it got worse as I got sicker and sicker this week. I've only had one major depression my entire life, this is quickly becoming my second one. There are some things that I haven't had the need to deal with for so long, and now that I'm alone and have to face the truth, I don't know how to deal with them. This is worse than facing a break up, cuz it's facing the consequences of a break up.

Still feel like a dead dog with the cough and the sneezing and the stuffed up nose today, hopefully I'll be better tomorrow.


D打電話來﹐說了一些很動聽的說話。Despite my situation我居然還有氣力拒絕了他。但﹐不知能撐多久了。

另一個他
你幫了我一個大忙﹐把我從無助中救了出來。
雖然你還不知道發生了甚麼事﹐但仍想多謝你。對不起﹐可能將傷風菌傳給你了!

狂想
我在想﹐如果沒介指的那個人現在向我求婚﹐我會答應他。不是因為我愛他﹐而是今天的我太軟弱了。

Harry Potter
Just saw the movie tonight on IMAX. Will have to talk about it later...

星期三, 11月 16, 2005

今天和Ta姐閒談。
"Are you and D back together yet?"
"...what?"
"I know you guys are going to get back together!"
"...WHAT?!"
"Yeah! D loves you and you love him!"
"...seriously, WTF are you talking about?!!!!"
"Just a matter of time~"
"....RIGHT..."

記低這段對話﹐不是因為我們真的可能再走在一起﹐而是她的口氣令我很感慨。真能預知將來會發生甚麼事就好了﹐那我現在就不用這麼惆悵了嘛。

星期二, 11月 15, 2005

Sushi Shibucho

又要多謝elmomonster的介紹﹐讓我在橙縣找到一間這麼棒的日本壽司店。這是一間很小的店﹐在一個偏僻的小商場內。Sushi Shibucho的老闆Shibutani原是一在日本很有名的壽司師父﹐後來在Beverly Hills開了間高級壽司店﹐三年前才決定在橙縣開這間小店。店面只容得下四張檯和壽司吧﹐只有他、太太和兒子三個人在做﹐是一間很有mom and pop feel的餐廳。

Shibutani的切魚生手法是一流的﹐他的魚生也是非常新鮮。我每次去時都喜歡叫“Omakase”﹐即是chef's recommendations。他會應那天有甚麼新鮮魚生來上菜。最愛他的spanish mackeral和albacore﹐魚生新鮮得入口即溶﹐真的好好好味道的哦。:O~

星期一, 11月 14, 2005

惡夢

昨天﹐一個本以為消失了的人突然間在我面前出現﹐真嚇了一跳。可能是太吃驚了﹐晚上又再夢見他。

應該是沒有甚麼意思的啦﹐應該。。。

呀~

糟糕﹐下班後喉嚨開始赤赤痛﹐聲音也漸漸變沙。吃了維他命C和喝了杯感冒茶後﹐還是頭暈暈似的。。。

不可以病呀﹐明天還有很多事要做呢。 >_<

P&P titbit

I promise, this will be the last post about this movie... :)

Anyways, I found out today that the American version of "Pride & Prejudice" is actually 8 minutes longer than the version they showed in Europe and Australia. We get the "sugar-coated" ending with a kissing scene, while nobody else does! hehehe, too bad you guys!

>>Read about it here

"If however your feelings have changed... I will have to tell you....you have bewitched me body and soul and I love...and love ..I love you....and never wish to be parted from you from this day on."
- Mr. Darcy


p.s. I really like this quote from a user review I stumbled upon:
"Mr. Darcy is an ass, but he is an ass in love, and here it seems like the distinction has been made."

星期日, 11月 13, 2005

不日放映

Recently I've had the pleasure to catch several movie trailers that got me really interested, and I want to share with you all:



The Producers - This is a more mainstream movie, with Matthew Broderick, Nathan Lane and Uma Thurman. I'm sure a lot of people have already heard of the broadway musical, so no surprise here.

Mrs. Henderson Presents - The Germans are bombing London, yet widow Judi Dench has decided to open up a theater with girls dancing naked. Everybody thinks she doesn't care about the war, but the truth is, she probaby cares about it more than anybody else. Does the naked dance girl in the poster look familiar? That's cuz it's Kelly Reilly, the British girl in "L'Auberge Espagnole"!(She's also Bingly's sister in "Pride and Prejudice") I think this movie is going to be GOOD! :)

Shop Girl - When I first saw the movie ads in magazines, I was like... pssst, Steve Martin?! Not going to see it. But after seeing the trailer, I'm not so sure anymore... Claire Danes seems amazing in it.

Bee Season - I love Juliette Binoche, and I haven't seen Richard Gere since "Chicago". I think this movie will make me cry.

Ballets Russes - This is a documentary movie on the revolutionary 20th-century dance troupe known as the Ballets Russes. They began as a group of Russian refugees, who never danced in Russia, and became not one but two rival dance troupes. Seeing interviews with the real members of the group, now in old age, is amazing.
Ruth and JY, I think you'll really like this movie.

Breakfast on Pluto - OK, I know this is a weird movie, and Cillian Murphy is extremely creepy looking, especially when he dresses like a woman. But for some reason I really really want to see how this movie will turn out, hehe.

香氛沐浴



又到冬冬愛推介的環節了。今次要介紹的是我近來才愛上了的Basin Bath Bombs。

一直都有浸泡泡浴的習慣。每次在下班或運動過後累到不得已時﹐開著Norah Jones的歌﹐點起香氛蠟燭﹐浸在一缸熱得冒煙的泡泡浴裡真是最佳享受。最近發覺用膩了Bath and Body Works的泡泡肥皂﹐於是便買了幾個bath bombs來試用﹐誰知一試便愛上了。

這麼多款bath bombs中﹐我最喜歡PrincessThree WordsLavender。其中Princess和Three Words都有乾玫瑰花瓣和花蕾在內﹐好香好香的! Bath bomb浴是沒有泡泡的﹐但水會變成bath bomb的顏色。浸在一缸漂著玫瑰花瓣的淺紅色熱水內﹐浸完後一身的玫瑰花味﹐真的好浪漫﹐好棒呢。而且bath bomb內含有滋潤皮膚的essential oils﹐在又冷又乾燥的冬天浸就最好了~ :)

星期六, 11月 12, 2005

Pride & Prejudice



After freezing my behind off out in the cold to wait in line for more than an hour last night, I want to say that it was SO worth the wait.

It's difficult for me to write about this movie, because I loved it so much that I didn't know where to begin. Well, let's start from the story itself. I guess anybody who's mildly interested in this movie would already know what it's about, but here's a little recap again(taken from yahoo movies):
"The story takes place in the class-conscious England of the late 18th century. The five Bennet sisters--including strong-willed Elizabeth and young Lydia--have all been raised by their mother with one purpose in life: finding a husband. When a wealthy bachelor takes up residence in a nearby mansion, the Bennets are abuzz. Amongst the man's sophisticated circle of friends, surely there will be no shortage of suitors for the Bennet sisters. But when Elizabeth meets up with the handsome but snobbish Mr. Darcy, the battle of the sexes is joined."

I would say the movie stays close to the original plot for the most part. Some parts are missing, but that is expected in order to fit the story into a 2-hour movie. I liked it that the movie toned down Mrs. Bennet's constant embarrassing tones and behaviors, and limited the screen time for the ever annoying Wickham, since I really can't stand the two of them.

The cinematography was beautiful and eyes-captivating, the sceneries and sets were breathtaking, and every shot of the movie was so carefully calculated and seemed so free-flowing that you would think a lot of scenes were shot in one long swoop. I especially loved the ballroom dancing scenes. There were a lot of people in the room and could be very confusing, but the director successfully did his magic and had us focus on the main characters at all times without straining our eyes.

The casts were superb, especially Keira Knightley as Lizzy. I never really liked her, hated her in "Pirates of Caribbean" and "Love Actually". But here, she's the one person who really shined and carried most scenes. As the headstrong Elizabeth, she's intelligent, playful, cheery, yet passionate all at the same time. At the scene where she confronts Darcy's confession, you can really see the fire in her eyes, and it gets your blood boiling along with her. At the end, when she talks to Mr. Bennet about her love for Darcy, wow, it was so sweet and powerful that it almost made me cry. Unfortunately, with Knightley shining so bright, I feel that Matthew MacFadyen as Mr. Darcy was a bit over-shadowed by her. With Colin Firth's Darcy being so successful, it's hard for anyone to fill his shoes, but MacFadyen did it very well. You can't quite compare the two Mr. Darcy's, since MacFadyen played it with a slightly different tone. His Darcy is still dark, but there's a certain silly-ness about him that made us laugh, in a good way. He showed a lot more emotion through his actions, facial expressions and body language than Firth ever did. The way he went to see Lizzy for no reason at all, the scene where he touched her hand, and how when they're the only ones in each other's eyes while dancing in a room full of people; yikes, he will make your heart melt!

One thing though, loyal fans of the novel might not be so fond of the ending. Instead of a wedding, the movie invents a brand new ending scene that doesn't quite fit into a Jane Austen movie. I liked it though, it's romantic enough. :)

Tell you all a little secret, since my post from last night, I've actually watched this movie twice already. Call me crazy, but a little Jane Austen is always the best cure for those of us who have lost all hopes in classical old-fashioned romance.

>>watch the movie trailer here!

星期五, 11月 11, 2005

I'm going I'm going I'm going!



When I saw the critic reviews for "Pride and Prejudice" this morning, I almost flipped out. They were phenomenal! All the critics raved about how wonderful this adaptation is. That was when I decided whether I have anybody to go with or not, I HAVE to watch this movie TONIGHT.

I thought this movie was opened everywhere today, but turns out it's only opened in selected theaters. But I thought, oh well, there shouldn't be too many people who would want to see this kind of movie anyways, so I didn't buy the ticket early.

Boy, was I wrong! I arrived at the theater half an hour before showtime, and it was SOLD out. The lines to enter the theater and to buy tickets were so long that it loops around the mall. This is INSANE!!! I did not know that there are so many Jane Austen fans out there? I was secretly hoping everyone in line was going to buy tickets for "The Squid and the Whale" or "Jesus Is Magic", but who am I kidding, everyone's there for "Pride and Prejudice"!

So, I got the next showing instead. It's 2 hours from now, but I figure I'll leave in about 15 minutes to go wait in line. I hate US theaters cuz they don't sell pre-assigned seats, everything is first-come first-served.

I am SO EXCITED!!!!!

秋風起

不經不覺又快到年尾﹐還有兩個星期便是美國的感恩節。天氣開始轉涼﹐四周也開始有聖誕的裝飾和氣氛﹐真好!

今天吃了第一餐火雞餐﹐下星期公司又辦感恩節luncheon﹐年尾派對將會陸續有來了~ :)

星期四, 11月 10, 2005

沒有太陽的日子

夏令時間完結後﹐早上越來越遲才日出﹐晚上越來越早便日落。上班下班時都是天黑黑的﹐很depressing。可能因為這樣﹐近來有點情緒低落。

晚上回到家﹐只想頹廢地趴在沙發上看電視﹐腦裡空白一片﹐甚麼也不想做。連出去買外賣也懶﹐家裡沒吃的﹐只好吃水果做晚餐。胃口也甚差﹐吃甚麼都覺得口淡淡。昨天的晚餐是Haagen Dazs芒果雪糕一杯﹐也是覺得淡而無味。

今天逼自己去買了本應最愛的雜錦魚生飯盒作晚餐。吃兩口便吃不下去了﹐究竟我是怎麼了?

星期三, 11月 09, 2005

相對已無言

跟他的對話已從對罵、諷刺、冷言冷語昇華到令一種更高境界。

我﹕“上次你說要在新居裝衛星電視﹐裝好了嗎?”
他﹕“決定不要了。我最近。。。常去了朋友家﹐朋友家裡有電視。。。”
我﹕“哦。。。朋友。。。”
他﹕“。。。”
我﹕“。。。”

他﹕“上次妳不是說要去試那間新壽司店嗎﹐找天和妳去午膳好不好?”
我﹕“我已跟朋友去試了! 好好味的呢。
他﹕“哦。。。朋友。。。”
我﹕“。。。”
他﹕“。。。”

發現無論談甚麼﹐不夠兩三句﹐總會變成﹕
“。。。”

他說起自己的近況時﹐我都不敢去問下去﹐也不敢知道。我想﹐他也一樣。於是句句都欲言又止﹐尷尷尬尬。這猜來猜去的遊戲一點也不好玩﹐也令自己變得很沒信心。每次他打來時我都會猜﹐她知道嗎?

我真的不想再猜﹐也不想再介意了。突然覺得﹐時間過得真慢。。。

my lucky day

6am. I was ready to go to work. Stepped outside my house, the door slammed close behind me. Looked down, no keys in my hands.

"SHIT!"

I've locked myself out. No house keys, no car keys, nothing. Cussed and banged on the door a few times, damn IT.

Luckily, I had my cell phone in my purse. Called my aunt, woke her up, had her rush over the spare house keys in her PJs.

While waiting for her to get here, it started to rain. It hasn't rained for more than a month, and it had to rain at this EXACT MOMENT. Of course, all the umbrellas were inside the house.

"SHIT!" again.

By the time I got the keys, got back inside my house to change, got into my car, started driving, it's already too late. TRAFFIC all the way to work.

That, my friend, was how today started for me. You can probably imagine what a lovely day it must've been. LOVELY.

星期二, 11月 08, 2005

重溫幽夢

曾經中過很深很深的瓊瑤毒﹐本以為已戒毒成功﹐誰知。。。

昨晚睡不著時拿起多年前看過的《一簾幽夢》來翻﹐一看便停不了。瓊瑤的愛情小說雖然完全地脫離現實﹐但卻因此而更吸引。那種愛得驚天動地﹐要生要死的愛情﹐真的只是在她的小說中才會有的了。

我有一簾幽夢,
不知與誰能共?
多少秘密在其中,
欲訴無人能懂!

窗外更深露重,
窗內閒愁難送,
多少心事寄無從,
化作一簾幽夢!

昨宵雨疏風動,
今夜落花成塚,
春去春來俱無蹤,
徒留一簾幽夢!

誰能解我情衷?
誰將柔情深種?
若能相知又相逢,
共此一簾幽夢!


下一本想重看的是。。。《浪花》。^^

千杯不醉



看後感﹕
- 千嬅真的開始老了﹐給戲中的靚妹們輕易地比了下去。
- 雖然吳彥祖打正招牌做靚仔男主角﹐但我卻覺得演麻甩大佬的方中信更吸引。看來我也老了~
- 兩個生日蛋糕那幕﹐好depressing哦!
- 方中信食臭芝士﹐笑死~
- 為甚麼近年的笑片總是喜歡加插個同性戀的sidekick角色? 看他們扮演些誇張得過份的stereotypical gays﹐真的好笑嗎? 每次看完都覺得好offended。身邊的這些朋友雖然有些的確有點女性化﹐但不是每個都像just Jack那樣的。
- 男人醉酒後的說話信不過? 不是酒後才吐真言嗎﹐嘻。
- 一齣看完笑餐飽就算的電影﹐普普通通啦。

星期一, 11月 07, 2005

冬之海

怎麼不是冬之谷﹐還要是無情的? 灰灰的天空和海﹐我不要呀~~

It's just broken



昨天在書店閒逛時看到一本書:"It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken"。書的封面設計實在太可愛﹐於是便拿起來翻了兩翻。原來是一本幫助剛分手的女孩子們重新振作的書。書中列出各種分手後應做和不應做的事﹐用詞生動有趣﹐非常過癮。是一本會叫人一邊看一邊會心微笑的書。

讀了幾頁後﹐還是把書放下了。心想﹐如果在多年前那次分手時有這本書就好了﹐可以走少很多冤枉路。但到了今時今日﹐我已不再需要。受過這麼多的教訓和苦頭﹐人已差點可以成仙﹐還要書來幹嘛? :P

星期日, 11月 06, 2005

一人行

清早起來﹐決定一個人去x'mas shopping。

踏進商場﹐見到大大張“SALE”的橫額已知不妙。大拼搏了大半天後﹐買給自己的比買給別人的多﹐大鑊! 還好想將其中一份禮物據為己有﹐唉﹐忍呀~

Shopping到連午餐也忘了吃﹐餓到差不多快暈倒時才去買飯吃~


這兩天在車中不停地repeat這首歌﹐很對心情哦﹕

習慣

分手已經兩年半 我們再度向寂寞取暖 沒有牽掛和不安
失去彼此的陪伴 我們學著將回憶剪斷 拒絕想念的試探

曾經以為總會找到 說服自己的答案
情緒卻在風浪平息後 被一通電話打翻

我已經漸漸習慣 忙碌把生活填滿 和自己分享晚戲桮菗§o更理所當然 我已經漸漸習慣 對感情順其自然
只是我還不明白 失去你的天空 為何看來不那麼蔚藍

相愛到瞭解的默契 怎能說忘記就忘記
我想我已經習慣你

愛情全壘打

最近﹐譚細佬身邊有幾個朋友都訂了婚﹐令他很受了點刺激。昨天他問我有沒有想過結婚後是怎樣的。嚇了一跳﹐想不到譚細佬也大個仔了。

其實﹐只差一點點的我﹐怎會沒想過這個問題呢。但是﹐一直以來每次想起結婚就會有種負面的感覺。覺得﹐犧牲太大了。

這麼多年來﹐我一直都在做一些我不願意做的事。我不願意去應酬他的家人、朋友。我不願意陪他出席公司的聚會。我不願意陪他去他想去旅行的地方。我不願意陪他去看些我不想看的電影。我不願意為了他而改變自己的興趣。為了他﹐我全都勉為其難地做。

還沒結婚已是這麼辛苦﹐婚後怎辦? 分開時﹐真有種“我受夠了”的感覺。“結婚”這兩個字﹐更是提也別提了。開始覺得﹐結婚不是我的那杯茶﹐這輩子我也可能跟可怕的它無緣了。

可是﹐今天看了“愛情全壘打”(Fever Pitch)後﹐想法開始有一點點改變。戲中男主角是波士頓紅襪隊的超級棒球迷,二十多年來每一場棒球賽他都一定會去看。女主角無法理解到底是球隊重要還是她重要,兩人感情因此波折連連。最後男女主角都明白到﹐看球賽或是做甚麼根本不要緊﹐只要兩個人在一起才是最重要的。

原來不是結婚太勉強﹐只是結婚的對象對錯了。愛得不夠﹐自然為他做甚麼都不願意。如果真愛一個人﹐你會義無反顧地為他作任何事﹐一點也不會覺得辛苦。因為﹐只要他在身邊便已足夠。最少﹐我現在是這樣認為的。

(對不起﹐今天好像有點語無倫次了~ :P)

星期六, 11月 05, 2005

曖昧

不久前圓圓Hana都寫過“曖昧”這兩個字的意思。

最近﹐對這兩個字又有了新的體會。

曖昧﹐可以是一個似是而非的眼神。
曖昧﹐可以是擦身而過時感到的一剎溫暖。
曖昧﹐可以是出奇不意時說出的一句話。
曖昧﹐可以是一個靦腆的笑容。
曖昧﹐可以是當感覺到他的眼光跟著你走時的窩心。
曖昧﹐可以是見到他時突然轉變的心情。
曖昧﹐可以是見不到他時淡淡的失望。
曖昧﹐可以是想見他時忐忑不安的盼望。
曖昧﹐可以是一段感情的美麗前奏。
但曖昧﹐也可以是陷進萬劫不復前的兇兆。

所以﹐當發現開始曖曖昧昧時﹐也是時候考慮回頭了。

星期五, 11月 04, 2005

Bride and Prejudice



So, I'm really not sure what to say about this Bollywood version of my beloved "Pride and Prejudice". The story, the music, the colors, the visuals, the glamorous settings, two attractive main characters, everything is there. However, I am just not loving it as I should be. I'll explain in a bit.

Quick summary of the story in case you don't know:
"The main plot focuses on the relationship between wealthy workaholic Will Darcy (Martin Henderson) and Lalita Bakshi (the "Elizabeth Bennett" role, played by Aishwarya Rai), the second daughter of a middle-class Indian couple. When Darcy arrives in Lalita's hometown of Amritsar, it's contempt at first sight, but as these two mismatched individuals get to know one another, love blooms. There are plenty of complications, not the least of which are Lalita's pride and Darcy's prejudice."

The film is enjoyable, light-hearted, funny at times, bright and colorful. However, some scenes are too obnoxious and loud, the relationship between Darcy and Lalita was developed too quickly, Darcy is way too pretty and not enough darkness in him, the lip-synching during musical numbers are hard to watch, and the whole idea that everybody (except Darcy) in the story are Indians is just a bit hard to grasp. It's difficult for me to accept a different approach to a story that I know so well, especially when the "Pride and Prejudice" miniseries(with Colin Firth) is still so deeply-rooted in my mind.

Also, please be warned, watching Sayid from "Lost" gettin' jiggy wit' it was an extremely painful experience.

After watching this, I think I'm anticipating the more traditional "Pride and Prejudice" remake that's due out end of this year more than ever now.

星期四, 11月 03, 2005

我們的舊照片

在“藉著雨點說愛你”裡﹐有一段是說男女主角在中學時互相暗戀對方﹐他們不約而同地在學校買下了對方的課餘照片。

真是好熟悉的情節啊。有一年﹐學校運動會後﹐在壁佈版上貼滿給我們學生買的相片。而我則選了一張剛剛有我和某個他的照片。在照片中﹐我和朋友們站在一起﹐而他剛剛在旁邊經過﹐就給攝在鏡頭裡了。照片到手後﹐我還真開心了好一陣子﹐嘻。

很多很多年後﹐我們又意外地碰面了。跟他說起我有那張照片(但當然沒跟他講是為他買的啦~)﹐他居然說那時候他也有買呢! 他還說﹐他在那張照片後面寫了字﹐不能給我看的。

後來﹐又發生了很多事情﹐但已是另一個故事。

我沒電影裡的男女主角那麼幸運。我想﹐我永遠都不會知道他在照片後面寫了些甚麼﹐也永遠都不會知道究竟有沒有另一個版本的故事了。

童年記憶2: 作狀怪



小時候最喜歡扮鬼扮馬了﹐扮彈鋼琴﹐扮打電話﹐扮唱歌﹐扮模特兒catwalk﹐簡直層出不窮。表演慾那麼強﹐其實我應該去從事表演行業﹐呵呵~

譚媽常說她生得我不知多漂亮﹐可惜我不知怎麼搞的﹐越大越變醜了。唯一不變的是那十年如一日的笑容﹐那個笑到連眼尾也掉下來的笑容。她常說﹐笑時眼睛不要笑呀﹐會多皺紋的﹐我卻總是忘記。唉﹐我不要皺紋呀。

stuck on the toilet??

This guy is a joke. First of all, why was he using a public bathroom for "big business"?! Second, why wasn't he using a toilet seat cover?! THIRD, third... it's just GROSS!!!!!

Reading about this news story while eating lunch was a big mistake. Now I have to throw out 2/3 of my lunch cuz I lost all my appetite. :(

Man Sues After Using Glue-Covered Toilet

星期三, 11月 02, 2005

Don't Think of Me

So you're with her, and not with me
I hope she's sweet, and so pretty
I hear she cooks delightfully
A little angel beside you

So you're with her, and not with me
Oh how lucky one man can be
I hear your house is smart and clean
Oh how lovely with your homecoming queen
Oh how lovely it must be

When you see her sweet smile baby, don't think of me
When she lays in your warm arms, don't think of me

So you're with her, and not with me
I know she spreads sweet honey
Backed your best friend, I heard he spent last night with her
Now how do you feel
How do you feel

When you see her sweet smile baby, don't think of me
When she lays in your warm arms, don't think of me
And it's too late and it's too bad, don't think of me
And it's too late and it's too bad, don't think of me

Does it bother you now all the mess I made
Does it bother you now the clothes you told me not to wear
Does it bother you now all the angry games we played
Does it bother you now when I'm not there

星期二, 11月 01, 2005

尼羅河女兒



還記得N年前的少女漫畫《尼羅河女兒》嗎? 給我找到了﹐正在看得天昏地暗。不過﹐這麼多年後重看﹐好像沒從前好看了。是心態變了嗎? 見到女主角凱羅爾不斷地做著愚蠢的事﹐不斷地被壞人虜去傷害﹐真有點煩厭呢。只看到第十二集﹐已有點想放棄不看了。

冬之谷